An idea!

I think I have stumbled upon and  idea that will make me happier, by making my hubby happier. But I don't want to spill the beans on what it is, just in case he is the one reader I have on here. But I report on how it goes it goes daily for a week and we will find out if it works and if it worth the effort. I am hoping it won't be too much work really, just more of how to look at my relationship with my husband.  I know I can't change him, and I know he knows he can't change me, but that doesn't mean change can't happen with the marriage. We can both grow and learn and evolve into something different together.

I need to learn to be less critical and more supportive. Which isn't always easy. But I am learning, that when I am soft and loving with my boys, they lesson better. So maybe that will work with my hubby.  I know if I cheer him on, he will step up to the challenge, like my children do. So we shall see.
 
I hope I am able to pull this off, that I am able to change and make things better. Because at this point this is really about me, and not about anyone else. But if it creates a better feeling in the home so be it.